But do know that he is a 17 year old, and when he hits that legal age for the first few years, shit usually hits the fan, and most guys like to be without tie downs in that period of their lives. When I consider the changes I experienced in attitude, general knowledge of how the world works, maturity, sense of empathy, etc. I'm going on memory , so that might be tricky. He waited till I turned 18 as well for sexual relations and we also too discussed our future and every thing even from our age gap and all that when we first started dating he also said if I was sure about this because he wanted to make sure I had my head straight about experiencing stuff for my own an stuff like that but I'm very mature and I knew what I wanted already and what I want so I told him I wanted him now we are soul mates and I don't regret us getting together at all. If they mesh well together then both can contribute to the relationship, not just him because he's older. So a 22 year old should only be dating 18 and up. Have fune, but don't look at this like something that's going to stick.
It's giving me a lot to consider though, and it really just helps to receive opinions. People grow and change a lot during adolescence and early adulthood, and 6 years is a huge age difference at that age. While we were dating he tried to control everything I did, he got mad at me for hanging out with my friends, and wouldnt let me have a life of my own. Which is true I am very wise beyond my years and I have an old soul which I think makes it work between us my man supports me to finish school get a career and get on the right track while he pays the bills and takes care of me as I do for him and before we date we discussed every thing from situations with our age gap to 5-10 years what where want to be in that time do we discussed every little thing even as am I sure I wanted to date him so I can experience things for my own and stuff like that but I knew what I wanted and that was him. Im not saying thats the case but should police become involved the two could easily throw that in and then it would be word against word and nobody would win at all. Though I think it would be extremely rare for a relationship like this to last, I am not opposed to it, provided that the older partner treats the younger partner with respect. Questions always arise in cases like yourself.
I could say it was a friend that said that or that I only said it to make him jealous. Plus, it's not exactly great for a long term relationship. Do you think its right that a 22 year old is dating a 15 year old highschool student? Plus, don't forget that when daughters become teenagers, they automatically despise their mothers for a few years. Why does your age difference bother you so much? They are all in shock with my maturaity and ableable to handle their personalties. I agree with Lil Sweet Heart on this point.
The minor can also become entangled in the juvenile justice system. I'm in Canada, age of consent is 16, so all is well legally My morals were conflicted, but she doesn't look 16, and she doesn't act like a 16 year old. After all age is just a number, if they able to have a good relationship and love each other then nothing really matter. We aren't dating yet, but we've shown mutual interest in each other. We have been dating for a little under a year now and we are deeply in love and couldnt be happeir with the way things are going. I am glad to hear that your families are in contact and have accepted each other and also the relationship.
We shared so much in common, and she both looked older, and was far more mature than most people I can remember being when I was that age I actually thought she was around her early 20's when I met her that when we went out for dinner, or on a date, no one gave us weird looks. I'm not sure if he can still get jail-time if her parents consent the relationship or not, they'd have to find that out. Yeah he was never gonna date me at my age. I tried dating a 17 year old girl when I was 19 years old. That only works for kids older then 14 though.
Dating is not illegal as long as you're not doing anything you wouldn't do with your grandmother. MetroidPrimePwn It's only a 7-year difference. You like her enough to try to get opioins sp on it. He might try to tie her down to some crappy life. One thing led to another and we decided we would give dating a try. All in all, this probably isn't a smart idea. Or she may be only '16 years old' but act way more mature for her age.
In the state of Pennsylvania, is it legal for a 20 year old male and a 15 year old female to date? People gave me shit for it almost every time they heard how old she was, but you just gotta brush it off. And her opinion was that older guys are just looking to get in her pants and arnt looking for a real relationship. Why is the man so interested in dating someone in their mid-teens? MrLions You need to kick that guys ass or something thats completely out of line. Basically your not on the same level playing feild, why can't you date someone your age or older? I think 15 is awfully young, though, when you're talking about a partner in his 20s. Before you ask, I'm not worried about the legal stuff because the age of consent where I live is 16. The person is at least age 16 years and at least 5 years older than the child or children in Criterion A. I certainly don't feel 20, and one year ago I was still in high school, but I can't argue with the numbers, and the numbers say that I'm a creep.
I would consider myself pretty mature for my age group and him not so mature so we get on really well and the past 5 months have been great. I just couldn't imagine you having all that much in common in the end. Is there any legal way we could be together? Also, my parents are very against this, he is a very good guy however, they don't like the fact that he is over age. Don't let such a small thing come between yourselves. You're confusing whether it is illegal, and whether it can be proven. It bothers me that shes with a guy who is that old.