Risking family life and hurting his partner. I just come to learn that he still can't get over the age difference between us. Still, most of them fail miserably, for the exact same reasons that I think Penelope is suggesting. Anonymous · 29 Jul 2006im dating a guy 17 years younger then me and come up against the same attitude time and time again that its not quite normal and it wont last,we have been togethar for almost 4 years now and i mostly think of him as the sweetest thing. Granted the older we get I'm 39 years old. So I say to all of you ladies out there if you are contemplating an older man, go for it.
Less expectations and go with the flow mentality is super amazing. Kind, mature and understanding guys fit the bill. Keep studying, and learning, but realize that women don't care about your mental capacity. Realizing this about five years after everyone else, he takes a deep sigh and cranks his standards down a few big notches. My sister and her husband have 13 years between them 30 and 43 and they are very happy together. They will certainly get treated better most of the time by an older man.
After all, age is just a number. I am married to a guy who is 10 years older than me and my late husband was 16 years older than me! You can absolutely date younger women! Challenge him, but know when to stop. My Mother is 11 years older than my Father. We can complete eachothers sentences and anticipate eachothers thoughts. Many younger folks are still evolving and maturing, and their wants, needs and goals can change much quicker than the older folks.
My best friend's mother and her stepfather are about 15 years apart in age. Many of these marriages last, too. We have Many things in common, one of which, would be Very difficult to replicate. Or see yah and yeah that was great, I experienced that by myself! The dirty talk about age is super hot if you just chill out ;. He does not like to enjoy life not have the time since his demanding job take most of the time. PostDoc, if it happened often then you were actually consciously choosing to be with older men. As he says himself he fell in love with my personality not my body.
They wont shut up and listen when they need to, they have to prove that they're right, they are always pushing her for the serious relationship that she isnt ready for right now shes had four guys try to marry her and one guy try to get her pregnant against her wishes. Lately I have been getting a lot of attention from the over 40 female crowd. I'd probably start to feel a little creepy myself. Its been a month and it's been fabulous. I think my relationship experiences pay off when I'm with her. But it might be a problem later. Some people tend to overlook the guy and just think about the female.
It will happen, just a matter of when. So I guess it all depends like the undergarment. He isn't brothered if I'm getting wrinkles of 'spreading' around the middle. We've been dating 7 months now I'm the happiest I've ever been, and you may find it hard to believe but, im in love. Also btw I have had to pull my I.
Especially if there is a big generation gap, things can be difficult in finding common ground. You go ahead Sweetie and date all those younger women you want. Women in their 20's have very low interest in men in their 40's. If you want a case study in humanity, 30-year-old single guys have pretty much all the bases covered. Of course not, an individuals age doesn't determine who they are. I love him, and I've come to realize that it doesn't matter what the people around us think, we love each other. That's what they'd say anyway.
Anonymous · 31 Mar 2009 Hi Amada, it is wonderful that you have found love, age gap notwithstanding. But perhaps the motliest part of this crowd is the ever-growing group of 30-year-old single guys. It is therefore not surprising that 44 is the age when women are most likely to seek. We started going out when i was 19 and at first it was a lot of fun for me, he treated me with the respect i never got off men my age. They accept that bad things happen to good people. Anonymous · 04 Jan 2007It's encouraging to see so many positive comments here and a debate on this issue! So right when we're hitting our prime, men are losing their hard-ons.